What I have learned.

I have learned that in life unexpected things happen to you and that if you let it, it can allow you to become a better and more whole version of you.

I have learned that I am unique and there is no one else out there like me.

I have learned that friendships come and go. I learned that it's OK. It's not about me. That is life.

I have learned that setting boundaries can be the hardest thing to do, but it's the loving thing to do for myself.

I have learned the courage to be imperfect and despite of failing, there are blessings that come when I keep on trying and that is the part that teaches me to achieve.

I have learned that I am a learner in this world. Just a sponge. I do not know it all.

I have learned that I try a lot of different things and don't always follow through to finish what I start and that's OK. I just am not interested and I am interested in other things.

I have learned that it's ok for me to not like what others like or not to have the same passions as others do. I have my own passions and even though you may not be interested in mine and I am not interested in yours, thats OK. I can still sit with you and be with you and thats OK.

I have learned that the should's and must's in my head only get me stuck and hinder my ability to be me and be uniquely me. So here I go, learning to be free from those.

I have learned to let go of my expectations because those leave space for disappointment. So here I go, learning what it feels to be free.

I have learned I make a lot of mistakes. I make mistakes with friends, as a mom, as a daughter and a sister and as a wife. I have learned that I have been through it all and will go through it all and that's OK. That gives me credibility. Been there, done that. I'm OK.

I am learning.